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The Baby-sitters Club’s readership is generally thought of as a girls’ club. Whenever a man shows up on BSC message boards or livejournals, it’s something unusual. Posters are generally assumed to be female until proven otherwise.

Now, if some of us girls feel strange reading the BSC once we’re actually older than our childhood idols, well, I can only imagine what happens when sex/gender plays into it. If I feel weird reading the BSC being a relatively normal 21-year-old female college student who enjoys dancing to electroclash and shopping for clothes that only a Stacey would wear, I can only imagine how a 21-year-old male college student feels.

I know that my brother would occasionally read them in the bathroom, and that The BSC Companion is run by a man, and we occasionally get men on the livejournal. There are people who make their SOs read the books. I’m really curious about the experiences of a male who reads the BSC, and what reactions they get from people.


There is also the fact that these books are without a doubt written with a female audience in mind. Yes, there is a token male sitter, but, like Lyman Bruno, we pretty much all accept the fact if it weren’t for his relationship with Mary Anne, Logan probably wouldn’t be in the Club. The boys I know who baby-sit do just as well as the girls, but it is still kind of stigmatized, even nearly twenty years after Logan accepted Kristy’s offer to be a Associate Member.

I don’t really know where I’m going with all this, and in fact I don’t know if I have any male readers. But I am interested in their perspective on what they like about the BSC, and whatever problems they’ve had with their families, etc. because of their love for it.

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WickedWonder said, November 2nd, 2007 at 10:54 pm

One of my mom’s babysitting charges (and one of my good friends growing up) used to read the BSC with me. Of course, he totally used to lie to me and tell me that the books were up in the hundreds (this was earlier than 1994- dunno when the series actually did hit 100). Still, we used to gossip about Kristy and how Stacey was so cool.

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Joha said, November 3rd, 2007 at 2:04 pm

haha. I still remember when my dad took me and my sister roller skating (i was 8, she was 6) and had one of BSC books with him. HE WAS READING IT WITHOUT SHAME AT THE ROLLER RINK. Of course we made fun of him.

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John said, November 5th, 2007 at 5:38 pm

Hi Greer! This is johndawn from the boards. I grew up obsessed with the BSC and in all honesty I never really got too much flack for it, especially considering I grew up in an extremely small town in middle America. My parents never seemed bothered by it and never had a problem picking up books for me, or giving me a few bucks to run in the mall and get the books myself. It was kind of a non-issue, or they just didn’t let it show if it was. I can remember a couple of times getting teased by boys in school for reading them, but nothing major. Now that I’m older and rereading the books, my friends don’t seem to think anything of it. Then again, I have very open-minded friends who have their own fair share of unique quirks so I guess that explains a lot. I don’t know any other guys who read the books as voraciously as I did so I don’t know how their experiences would compare to mine. I imagine there are a lot of guys out there who had to pull a Claudia and hide their BSC books.

As for what I personally enjoyed about, or got from, the books… it’s kind of hard to say, really. I read a LOT when I was little, everything from Nancy Drew and The Boxcar Children, to Stephen King and even V.C. Andrews. I just loved reading and the BSC, for a child anyway, was a fairly well-realized series with a large group of characters that offered a nice escape from boring reality. I guess what I’m saying is that for a child it was a series you could really sink your teeth into and get wrapped up in. Does that make any sense? lol
I did relate to some of the characters, particularly angsty Mallory and “individualistic” Dawn. So even though I was a boy I did see qualities of my own in some characters, which is the main purpose of kid-lit.

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corduroy said, January 1st, 2008 at 6:12 pm

Male BSC fan here. Like John, my parents never gave me any issues about reading the BSC books. (My dad even read The Truth about Stacey aloud to me.)

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